Key Points
- Different cat breeds have distinct behaviors: some show affection with cuddles, while others are more playful and curious.
- There are 73 recognized cat breeds, many known for their friendly personalities.
- Some of the friendliest cat breeds are Maine Coon, Siamese, Burmese, and Ragdoll cats.
If dogs are man’s best friend, then what are cats? A smart man’s best friend. (If any dog lovers ask, we’re joking, of course.)
While dogs are usually described as loyal, friendly, and devoted, cats are more often regarded as independent or ambivalent — even by those who love them the most. Cats may play up their nonchalant reputation, but we know there’s unconditional love hiding beneath that steely facade. In fact, 58% of cat owners believe their cats express different emotions, with affection being one of the top ones.
If you’re looking for a naturally sociable cat, then you should know that certain breeds have more affectionate and easygoing personalities. These breeds are particularly popular in households with multiple pets or young children.
The International Cat Association recognizes 73 cat breeds that span a wide range of personality types, from “curious and athletic” to “fun-loving and intelligent” to “vocal and insistent.” So, which breeds are known for their loving, sweet, and kid-friendly personalities?
Read on to learn about some of the friendliest cat breeds.
1. Maine Coon
Great for: Maine Coons are great family pets, often referred to as “gentle giants” as they’re known for being affectionate with other cats, people, children, and dogs.
Recognizable by their large size and tufted paws and ears, Maine Coons have a striking presence. They come in various colors and patterns, from black to smoke to cream and more.
These cats are soft-hearted and don’t mind snuggling up on your lap. They show their love through chirps, trills, and other adorable little sounds.
They’re also quite smart — some people consider them “dog-like” because they can learn to respond to basic commands. Unlike most cats, the Maine Coon also has an affinity for water, so don’t be surprised if you see them playing in their water bowl or the shower.
2. Siamese Cats
Great for: The Siamese cat is known for being intensely loyal. They often bond with their favorite people, making them ideal companions for singletons and families alike.
Siamese cats have striking blue eyes and a social nature. This means they’re happiest when they’re close to their people: on your lap, on your bed, or simply following you around the house.
They’re also very vocal and talkative, and are known for the variety of sounds they make and their willingness to meow at you to get your attention.
While they’re likely to get attached to their owner and household, they might be more cautious, and thus less friendly, toward strangers. They also pair well with other cats, who help the Siamese expel their energy and curb their anxiety when they’re alone.
3. Abyssinian
Great for: Abyssinians make wonderful pets for active households wanting an intelligent, loyal, and playful companion.
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Abyssinians are one of the oldest known cat breeds, dating back to ancient Egypt. While they aren’t known for being lap cats, these ancient cats are people-oriented and love being involved in whatever you’re doing.
They love to be the center of attention and are happy to learn and perform tricks. They’re usually curious and playful, so they can quickly get bored if you don’t play with them. You don’t want to leave them home alone for a long time.
4. Ragdoll
Great for: Ragdolls are gentle and affectionate, perfect for families with children, seniors, and pets — including other cats and dogs.
These laid-back cats love to follow you wherever you go. They’re great lap cats known to greet family members at the door. Plus, they can learn to play fetch.
Known for their sweet temperaments, Ragdolls get along nicely with other family pets. Their gentle nature also makes them well-suited to growing families with little kids.
While they’re playful, they’re not overly active — preferring to lounge on the floor instead of finding a high perch to rest on.
5. Sphynx
Great for: Known for their iconic hairless look, the Sphynx is a friendly and attention-loving breed that’s perfect for people who prefer cats that don’t shed as much.
Despite their odd (yet adorable) appearance, they’re friendly, outgoing, and intelligent. Sphynx cats love to be the center of attention and might even get in trouble to ensure you’re watching.
With their love of attention, the Sphynx can be mischievous and silly, but they’re also very affectionate. They thrive on human interaction, and can be found showing off to their owners or snuggling up in a warm spot when tired.
6. Persian
Great for: Persians are one of the most popular cat breeds, known for their sweet, gentle personalities and adorable facial expressions. They’re not overly active, making them great pets for seniors.
The long-haired Persian cat tends to prefer calm and quiet over constant play. They love routines and are generally well-behaved companions. Persians enjoy spending time with you, and most have a favorite nap spot (or several).
Persian cats can sometimes be playful, but they’re not demanding of attention and don’t have a reputation for getting into trouble (unlike their Sphynx cousins).
Plus, while they’re not as chatty as some of the other breeds on our list, they’re known for their melodic chirps when they feel like talking.
7. Burmese
Great for: Burmese are affectionate cats who want to spend as much time with their families as possible. They also get along well with children and other cats and dogs. For many Burmese cat owners, just one of these felines isn’t enough.
According to the CFA, Burmese cats have such an irresistible appeal that they’ve long been known for winning over people who thought they didn’t like cats.
They’re also energetic — almost dog-like — and are known to enjoy games of fetch. They’re smart and confident and love to be active family members. They like to follow you from room to room, cuddle up on your lap, and sleep on your bed.
8. Birman
Great for: Birman cats are easy-going and patient, quickly forming bonds with humans and other animals. This makes them an excellent choice for families with children and other pets.
Another blue-eyed beauty, the long-haired Birman is a striking cat with a distinct appearance. Their ears, paws, and face are always darker than the rest of their body — usually blackish-brown compared to a white or light tan coat.
Though Birmans certainly thrive on attention, they are generally quiet compared to other cats. Like some other cats on our list, they’re known for having more of a chirp-like voice than a meow when they speak up.
9. Exotic Shorthair
Great for: While Exotic Shorthair cats enjoy spending time with their humans, they aren’t overly demanding. This breed is ideal for families who don’t want a clingy or attention-seeking cat (to each their own). Because of their adaptability and general friendliness, Exotic Shorthairs can fit in with families of all kinds.
Sweet, quiet, and affectionate, this cat breed has an unforgettable face similar to the Persian cat. In fact, the Exotic Shorthair was bred to look just like a Persian, but with a short, dense coat that doesn’t shed quite as much. They still shed some, but Exotic Shorthairs make extremely loyal companions who will show you love without acting like your shadow.
They’re playful, fun-loving, and generally easy-going, but Exotic Shorthairs are not known for being talkative. Instead, they’ll politely request your attention with one or two quiet, squeaky mews.
10. Scottish Fold
Great for: Swifties (we’re not kidding — Miss Taylor herself has two Scottish Folds, along with a Ragdoll cat). Scottish Folds are generally laid back and get along happily with other cats, dogs, and children.
Scottish Folds are not only adorable, but also make adaptable, sweet, and loving companions. They aren’t demanding in any sense, and can adjust to new people or situations with ease.
This breed is pretty laid back and aren’t demanding in any sense. Scottish Folds can easily adjust to new people or situations with ease.
In fact, the Scottish Fold is likely to prefer having a companion — they don’t like being left at home alone for long periods of time. And while they’re occasionally playful, they usually like to perch on your lap or gently snuggle up next to you.
11. American Bobtail
Great for: American Bobtails are among the most affectionate and friendly cats. Their love for interactive play makes them great pets for families with older kids, or who specifically want a more active cat.
Though they resemble wild cats, American Bobtails are incredibly loving and all but physically attach themselves to their human family, following their owners around the house and waiting by the door.
They’re highly intelligent and can even be trained to walk on a leash. Due to their intelligence, they love playing with puzzle toys and may even stalk or shadow toys around the house.
American Bobtails are also natural hunters, which gives them a wild spirit that only adds to their unique charm.
12. Manx
Great for: The Manx is a loving cat breed that requires a lot of attention and affection, making them ideal for families who enjoy having snuggle buddies and a furry shadow following them around the house.
Known for lacking a tail (though not all Manx kittens are born tailless), these unique cats are friendly and even-tempered.
The Manx builds strong bonds with their people and doesn’t enjoy being left alone for long periods. These cats tend to do best in households where someone is around frequently, or where there are multiple pets who also crave companionship.
How to choose a cat for your family
When you’re looking for a feline friend to join your family, it’s important to remember that there are many factors — in addition to friendliness — that can go into deciding which cat breed is right for you.
Though these breeds are known for their friendly personalities, all cats are different, so it can be helpful to talk to a breeder or shelter for more information about specific cats you may be interested in bringing home.
Any cat lover will tell you that you play a large role in shaping your cat’s personality. Give your cat the love and affection they need, and they’ll give it right back.
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